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Saloni Chopra Accused Sajid Of Sexual Harassment. What’s The Truth?

Is Saloni Chopra truly a part of #MeToo Movement

#MeToo! For some, these small but impactful phrases are like wings of freedom. Whereas for some, it’s a approach of fulfilling their private vendetta. But, there are additionally those that have confused this motion of freedom with one thing else. In India, #MeToo is slowly taking the type of a revolution and I’m joyful about the identical. Nevertheless, I can’t assist however really feel that there are instances the place the tables on consent are turned when rejection seems within the forefront. In case of new-age ‘feminist’ Saloni Chopra that appears to be the case too.

Now, earlier than you bounce in to bash me of being a patriarchal shit, let me put forth the issues that induced such a sense in me. I feel she is caught in an period of pseudo-feminism, the place being liberated means merging the nice line between being inventive and overtly sexual. Her footage typically speaks that.

 

 

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On this Independence Day, the irony is that I’m something however Unbiased as a lady. My physique managed and censored, my ideas banned and abused, my free will is restricted to my breasts. ‘You can grow up to be anything my love, anything but a free woman’. You’ll be able to develop as much as be an engineer, runner, astronaut, physician… so long as you retain these breasts coated. As a result of as a lady, your physique, is the most important menace to this society. As a lady, my physique, belongs to every one in every of you. It belongs to your social platforms, your telephones, your porn websites, your bedrooms, your brothels – it belongs to every part however me, therefore you management what I do with it. To obtain human rights, nobody expects you to be Nelson Mandela – however to be a lady and want equality they anticipate you to be Kaplana Chawla. So that you can’t be simply one other woman who needs freedom to be herself. You need to first turn into the primary Indian lady to realize one thing no different lady has, after which they respect you. If ladies weren’t so busy making an attempt to cover their breasts or be ashamed of their durations, then you definitely’d in all probability have MORE ladies obtain extra issues, and we wouldn’t continuously within the 21st century have ‘1st woman to have done something thousands of men already have done’ be such an achievement. So Pleased Independence Day to ya’ll, however I feel I’ll skip this one. You’ll be able to censor my tits, however thank fucking god you’ll be able to’t censor my phrases. Swipe proper ➡️ for some critical patriarchal double requirements. As a result of that’s acceptable whereas this isn’t. Thanks, @rahulb90 for doing this for me. You give me hope. I really like you. #independenceday #india #equality #feminism #freethenipple #breakingstereotypes #fuckpatriarchy #ladies #bethechange

A submit shared by Saloni Chopra (@redheadwayfarer) on Aug 15, 2018 at 5:59am PDT

 

 

 

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2 years in the past, somebody determined to go away a remark saying ‘bewadi kuch Bhi likhti hai’ on a very critical publish I’d written about humanity. It made me giggle. A model (@wrap.on) began sending me T-shirt’s and telephone covers with slogans made out of imply issues individuals wrote in feedback. It made my day. A yr later, on a photograph of me & my greatest good friend @ibombets , somebody wrote ‘bitches on the beach’ – and we actually cracked up so exhausting, we have been nonetheless on the seashore – bitches, properly, I’ll take that as a praise for now as a result of any woman you can’t tie down or tame or management is a bitch today. If she’s supplying you with a bit of her thoughts and she or he ain’t afraid to throw it again, oh what a bitch. Nicely, be a bitch. And what’s higher than being a bitch? Being on the seashore, with different bitches ✨ Ethical of the story? There’s hate all over the place you go. Faculty, school, work, associates, strangers – you can’t management the shit individuals do, and therefore you’re not accountable for his or her filth. Study to giggle it off typically. Subsequent time somebody insults you, make a music out of it. Write it on a T-shirt. Paint it on a canvas. Remind them, and your self, that you simply wont fall down really easy. And something and every thing they do, defines them and never you. He referred to as you a whore? That’s okay, I can’t keep in mind the final time that was alleged to be insulting. They assume you promote your physique for cash? Greeeaaat, at the very least you’ve obtained a job. 50% of bullying would cease being so dangerous if youngsters stopped feeling so attacked and ashamed of the issues others have been saying to them. Bullies are those that ought to be boo’ed. Slut shamed? Slut is a phrase THEY invented, if anybody’s to be ashamed, let it’s them too. Do what you’ll want to chuckle off different individuals’s rubbish as an alternative of opening your door and taking all of it in. Your thoughts is just not a bin, filter what you feed it. Tag a pal. Inform them they’re superb. Fuck negativity. Fuck those that say terrible issues. Their foolish ass behind pc screens is simply lonely and depressed and if there’s something you will need to do, its to pity them. As for me? Nicely, I like being bewadi. ✨ #weekend #beyou #positivevibes #selflove #bethechange #goodvibes

A submit shared by Saloni Chopra (@redheadwayfarer) on Sep 21, 2018 at 7:11am PDT

 

 

 

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My eyes all the time give away what I’m feeling. Some say they’re ‘too expressive’, others, declare they’re ‘sad eyes’… nicely, when unsure, cover the factor that exposes you probably the most. Even when your coronary heart is in your shoulders – your fact is safely hidden from the world, and all they’re left with is a mirrored image of their very own insecurities. And all you are able to do, is blow them blind kisses. Stolen, therapeutic kisses. However love in the event you miss, know the loss was by no means yours… your coronary heart, was all the time in your shoulders, prepared to save lots of and heal and assist, it isn’t your fault that their eyes have been someway glued beneath. ? #morningvibes #randomthoughts #wordporn

A submit shared by Saloni Chopra (@redheadwayfarer) on Sep 18, 2018 at 1:48am PDT

 

 

Ladies can gown up any means she likes. I consider that really from my soul. Additionally, a lady has each proper to embrace her sensuality. Nevertheless, is feminism solely about displaying naked pores and skin? I want to assume it’s far more. Anyway coming again to the purpose, I used to be studying an interview of Saloni Chopra the place she showered allegations on Sajid Khan.

With out going into the talk if the incidents truly occurred on not, there are few issues which felt odd to me. An excerpt of the interview learn:

Sajid would inform Saloni how she was not “sexy enough to be an actress”. He provided to take her underneath his wing and put together her for Bollywood. He even stated that he would forged her in his subsequent movie, if she was prepared for it. “A part of me wanted it so bad that I kept working for him, and excusing his behaviour whenever I could.”

If she is excusing his conduct within the aspiration of getting some end result, then classifying it as #MeToo looks like an insult.

 

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“This one time, during a costume trial for a character in the movie he came in to see the girl in the outfit and asked her to lift her skirt and show her ass to him, she looked at me confused and I asked Sajid if it was necessary. She lifted her skirt and he started insulting her telling her she didn’t have any breasts or any ass, how did she think she’d become an actress? Then he asked me to leave the room and let them talk, and I did.”

I’ve a query right here. If somebody claims themselves as feminist, then a state of affairs like that is sure to conjure their anger ultimately resulting in protest. Why didn’t Saloni Chopra stroll down the identical path? True, there are occasions when conditions can get actually sticky. Judging solely by the phrases she stated, plainly she had the chance to boost her voice.

 

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Nevertheless, this one factor baffled me probably the most. The excerpt learn:

“One night, it got really ugly. I was so tired of the calls and the constant harassment, I asked him what he wanted from me. I told him that if this was just about sex then fine, I’d come over right now and f**k him but provided he backed off afterwards and stopped calling me every day.”

 

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Me too is all about giving a voice to those that have been harassed or abused sexually and missed the platform to talk up. As an alternative of getting the calls blocked or reporting harassment, leaping right into a proposition of intercourse sounds impractical. Particularly, studying what Sajid replied lastly waters the seed of confusion. That is what he stated, as reported:

“However, Sajid yelled at Saloni and told her that she was “naive and stupid” if she thought it was nearly intercourse. “This wasn’t about sex, it was about me being his little b***h and doing everything he told me to do,” she wrote. “He then said ‘you think I want to fuck you? I have such a hot girlfriend, why would I fuck a girl like you thats not even sexy?’”

To me, it feels like a banter fueled by the sting of rejection. I may be fallacious and I hope I’m. No, I’m not saying that the allegations towards Sajid Khan are false nor I’m saying they’re true. I might fairly like to see the ladies provide you with concrete proof to place him behind bars if discovered responsible.

 

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Nevertheless, this overpowering imposition of a feminist nature to cross on one thing as #MeToo when at occasions it felt like consent is unacceptable. I actually am pleased concerning the progress of #MeToo in India and need it to deliver some constructive end result as an alternative of everybody making an attempt to get their 15 minutes of fame.

I could also be proper or incorrect however that’s a private thought. The intention isn’t to demean or defame anybody however to boost a query. Is there a blurry line between consent and#MeToo that we frequently overlook to think about. What do you assume?

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